Curious Notions

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i get what you mean about the consolation thing.
“hurt now or hurt later” – i thought about that tonight and realized you quoted shopgirl. she chose “now.” i think most of us do/would.
i wish i knew what to say to make it better.

I wish I had something to say to make you feel better, but I don’t. If you need someone to listen, please feel free to shoot me an email.

I’m sorry you got that answer, but somehow I also feel that you’ll be glad that you got that answer. My belief is that the people that come and go/ stay in our life for an x-amount of period for a certain reason. Reason that we may or may not understand at that point of time.

I think A.’s role was to help you re-love again. Now that you’ve gotten to that point, you’re ready for your next challenge in your life.

It is not my intention to make A. sound like he’s dispensable, for he’s not. If anything, I think you know how big a role he’s played in your life. Enabling someone to learn to love and give unconditionally again is not an easy thing to do.

Whether he does come around it or not, your role in his life is just as important in either the same/ or in another way. If he does come around it, I think it would be a bonus for the both of you.

I’ll keep my fingers crossed for you.

yes. had i known what to say, it would come out similar to what adelnye said.

completely healthy mature way of looking at it.
thanks you two.

kim. your cookies. mmm.