Category: Love

Happy Birthday, Daddy!

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It’s my dad’s birthday today. My parents rarely let me take photos of them but I managed to get this one right before heading back up to Austin. I asked them to hug each other after this shot and they huffed and went back inside. Then I decided I actually love this shot with the crossed arms and matching amused close-lipped smiles.

Weekend Recap

I had a lovely weekend galavanting around Austin during SXSW. I spent most of the weekend with VEDA alums and it felt like a mini vacation!

Friday night, I had a date with Treavor who was in town from Seattle. We gorged ourselves on fried foods and chatted about our usual topics, life and love.

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Saturday, we met up with Anita and Patrick at the 4th Annual Bacon Takedown. I am very proud of the fact that I haven’t missed out on a Bacon Takedown yet! It was also the first time I met Patrick, yet I kind of felt like we were old friends. That’s the beauty of having Youtube/Twitter friends. They start to blend into your everyday reality so much that when you meet them, it doesn’t feel like it’s for the first time.


Photo Credit: Patrick Pho

Sunday, Anita and I went to Chris Guillebeau’s meetup and book signing. There was a point before the talk where Chris stood beside me and caught me stalking him on my phone. That was slightly embarrassing. I managed to feign having my wits about me enough to meet him before his talk and then once again to get my book signed. I bought his $100 Startup which was kind of a big deal to me. I haven’t purchased a book for myself in a long while and when I do, I use Amazon to get the best deal. I paid 25 dollars for the copy on site! It was worth it though to have him sign and acknowledge my future attendance of World Domination Summit with “See you in July!”.

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We followed the book signing with a lunch date at a vegan restaurant. (We were in the neighborhood and up for adventure.) We were solely disappointed with our food mostly because we had just been spoiled by a full day of bacon. But also, what was I thinking ordering a raw vegan Pad Thai? Don’t ever do that to yourself.

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After our disappointing but healthy lunch, Anita and I went to peruse the sketchbooks at the Austin stop of the Sketchbook Project tour. I was shortly reunited with mine and was able to check out Suki’s before their internet system went down. Below, you’ll find a collage with 3 snaps of my favorite random sketchbook. The artist had a thing for dinosaurs and created a fun and holey book centered around the extinct reptiles. I love that shot with Anita peeking from the other side of the sketchbook.

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Oh, I also high-fived Mario. Winning weekend indeed!

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Question: What are the top four highlights of your weekend?

2012 in Review

2012 was the best year I’ve had. I climbed out of my rut, maintained my dearest friendships, explored more bits of North America, and incorporated more sparkles into my wardrobe. It has been a beautiful year and I can’t believe it’s over. Below is my annual bullet recap.

Previous years: 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011

Note: All links open in a new window.

January

February

  • Had a fun blogger meet up centered around Austin’s Livestrong Half Marathon.
  • Kim and I exchanged care packages in the name of love. Mine from her is pictured here.
  • Hosted a fun sleepover with Naz while Alan was in Vegas for a bachelor party.
  • Acted as one of twelve judges at the That Takes the Cake cake competition. I taste tested 36 desserts. This was a mini dream come true!
  • I climbed Enchanted Rock for the first time with my coworkers on Leap Day.

  • Mini #BiSC Blogger Meet Up in Austin

March

  • Attended wedding Bill’s and Jennifer’s wedding.
  • Bob met my parents for the first time.
  • I taught Bob the “Bang Bang” trick.
  • Alan and I celebrated 4 years together at one of our favorite restaurants.
  • Went to a few SXSW music shows.
  • I took a week off from work because I realized I was at my max limit of PTO. It was a productive staycation.
  • I bought Alan and I Kevin James tickets for our anniversary. He was hilarious. It was the first time I experienced his standup.
  • Went to Houston for dad’s birthday.
  • Kim and I played love vandals and left paper cranes around Houston’s Historic Heights.

  • Alan and I at Jennifer and Bill’s wedding (St. Patrick’s Day)

April

  • Planted 4,000 tree seeds at the Wildflower Center as part of my volunteer resolutions.
  • Had a shooting range date with Alan.
  • Took a weekend road trip to Arkansas with Treavor, scratching out a new state in my 50 states goal.
  • Treavor convinced me to climb a mountain in Arkansas.
  • Best Dudie Friend visited my Sketchbook in Brooklyn. He sent me the photos from his disposable camera. I kind of loved the fuzzy quality.

  • Treavor and I on top of Mount Pinnacle

May

  • Had a lot of fun dreaming and journaling the Prosperity Game.
  • Went to Bloggers in Sin City and met 59 other bloggers, a handful I had been hoping to meet! It was a fantastic time and I smile every time I think back on that weekend.
  • Began training to be a Dishcrawl Ambassador.
  • Went to book signing party of Michael Natkin’s Herbivoracious.

  • Bloggers in Sin City

June

  • Hopped on a trolley and toured Austin’s mac and cheese scene with Google Local.
  • Celebrated National Donut Day by going to a 24 hour donut shop past midnight. I love a good simply glazed donut.
  • Saw Snoop Dogg in concert.
  • It was a hard month and the sweet gals from Totes Awesome Channel were in the know so they surprised me with gorgeous delicious cupcakes!
  • Reunited with my half sister in Pittsburgh. It was my first visit to Pittsburgh but not my first time in Pennsylvania. This was one my most profound experience in 2012.

  • With my sister at her luau

July

  • Hosted Austin’s first Dishcrawl.
  • Helped the philanthropy committee of Austin Food Bloggers Alliance host a charity event benefitting Bake A Wish, a local nonprofit.
  • Accepted a new job position at a software company the day before my birthday.
  • Treavor came to visit for a night and we saw one of the best movies of 2012, Magic Mike.
  • Celebrated my 29th with sweet friends with dinner and drinks.

  • Celebrating my birthday

August

  • Moved to a new apartment with Alan and Bob.
  • Started a new job where one of my college friends also works.
  • Hosted Austin’s second Dishcrawl.
  • Rode my first Segway with Brandi. I’m a slowpoke on the Segway.
  • Participated in my third year of VEDA (Vlogging Every Day in August).
  • August was super stressful with moving, starting a new job, VEDA, and planning and hosting another Dishcrawl. Whew!

  • On Segways

September

October

  • Bought a new to me car!
  • Gave Alan 28 gifts for his 28th birthday, on the day of his birthday we went to the West Virginia vs Texas football game.
  • Went to Marfa with Kim (and Oprah and Gayle and Ryan Gosling) and spent the night in a teepee.
  • For the first time in ten years, I didn’t dress up for Halloween and go out. I had an awesome time avoiding the drinking and the parties. Is this a sign of getting older? I think so.

November

December

  • Had a morbid date with Cindy and explored the National Museum of Funeral History. It’s actually a fantastic museum with a fascinating and impressive collection! Post to come soon.
  • Trail of Lights returned to Austin and I walked it with Alan and my little (Big Brothers Big Sisters of America). They met for the first time this night and it was great to see them hit it off. Little said Alan has swag.
  • Had a Love Actually date with Anita and Ashley complete with tomato soup and grilled cheeses.
  • Enjoyed crepes for lunch on Christmas Eve with Davey.
  • Had hot pot with BFF and her brother and mom. A Christmas Day tradition!
  • Kim and I had our balloon release date for the 6th consecutive year. We didn’t release balloons this time (did you know there is a global shortage of helium?). We did Chinese paper lanterns.
  • Tonight we’re ringing in the year at a friend’s place and playing board games. I’ve been having board game hankerings!

  • Wish Lanterns




So that was my 2012. It was fantastic! Hope you have a great end of year tonight!


Question: What are five highlights that happened in your 2012?

Wordless Wednesday: Balloons in a Phone Booth


Photos taken by Thomas L Chen.







Read more about the day here.

The Curly-Haired Girl

In first grade, there was a curly-haired girl who always had the sniffles. We played group games during recess but always on opposite teams. I didn’t know her name because although she was in the same grade, she was not in the same first grade class. She left our school after first grade and I quickly forgot about her.

In sixth grade, I was still in the same school. My friend and I were both at a Catholic high school competing in an academic contest. I think I was in a math competition. Before the test was passed out, my friend turned to a curly-haired girl and asked, “Did you go to St. Jeromes’s?” The girl surprised, blinked and confirmed. It was then that I recognized her as the sniffling girl from first grade.

I forgot about her again. Three years later, our paths crossed again as freshmen in a new high school. It took us a couple of years there but we grew to be each other’s best friend. I like to call her my brain. Whatever thought I have, it’s almost instinctual to share with her. Alan knows that when he swears me to secrecy, she is an exception. Luck was on my side when our paths cross three times before we got it right.

Happiest 30th to my BFF! I cannot wait to see her this Christmas!

Related: Last year’s post

Balloon Renegade Street Art

Last year during Thanksgiving weekend, I had a Magical Day with Thomas and Kim and a few others. It consisted of good food, sparkly tattoos, and learning how to make paper cranes. Exactly a year later, we reunited for Magical Day 2.

This time around, we met up for brunch, sipped on cinnamon coffee, and finished our meals with buttery croissants filled with chocolate and almond cream.

We then convened at a playground where we blew up dozens of pink balloons, after we monkeyed around on swings of course. (Kim and I have had a long standing affair with balloons.) We then took the balloons to one of the two red telephone booths we knew of in Houston. The other one was locked and occupied by a mannequin.

This one though, happily, was open and empty! We filled up the booth with balloons and then had a mini photo shoot. I’ll show you the official photos on Wednesday. We left the balloons there for passersby to enjoy.



It was so much fun. We took turns gingerly getting into the booth and shrieked in surprise when a balloon popped. I loved how well we played together. One person would squeeze herself or himself into the booth, while the remaining three stuck their hands into the booth and fluffed up the balloons.

It was a beautiful and joyful start of our Magical Day 2. We followed up the Balloon Renegade Street Art with a craft show, board games, and a fancy dinner. I’ll post the photographs from Thomas on Wednesday for Wordless Wednesday. In case you missed these two from my last post and Twitter, here are two sneak peeks.



Leave a comment and tell me about an awesome day you had recently.

Wordless Wednesday: Texas Renaissance Festival






Past years: 2011. 2009, 2007.

Blogging Changed My Life


Michelle & Me

I spent the bulk of today enjoying and working Austin Food & Wine Alliance’s Wine and Swine, an event that benefited their culinary grant program. I showed up early and happily ate all the swine I could stomach, all the while enjoying the company of Michelle, a friend I met through food blogging. Working the event was pretty enjoyable as well since I worked registration with Christy, another food blogging friend. So my Sunday was spent in the sun, eating pork prepared by notable chefs, and socializing with some of my favorite people.

On my drive home, I was feeling grateful. This event would have been a little out of my price range but food blogging has afforded me opportunities where I can volunteer my time and then enjoy the event outside my shift. I reflected on how else blogging has changed my life. Some of my closest confidants are friends I’ve met through blogging. I often forget that Kim and I, though we went to college together, we actually originally met through online journaling over ten years ago! If I hadn’t kept a blog, I wouldn’t have started vlogging, which I’ve already said changed my life as well.

I try not to make my blog the place I’m excessively negative and mopey. I can hardly stand myself when I’m stuck in a rut, but man the few times I blogged it out, the comments really comforted me. Through blogging I found a network of support I wasn’t looking for but has become something I cherish.

I started sharing my life online while I was in high school mostly because I have a deep urge to document everything I can. I had no idea that a hobby could be one of the happiest decisions I’ve made in my lifetime. Last year I wrote a thank you letter and posted it on my blog for anyone reading. And everything I wrote is still true for me. If you’re reading, thank you so much!


Question: Has a hobby ever changed your life?

Reuniting with My Sister


I started this post so many times since I’ve been back from my trip to Pittsburgh to reunite with my sister. There’s just so much to process, sift, and curate. What should I say and what should I keep private? One thing I know for certain is that spending time with her was the most profound experience of my 2012. As mentioned previously and numerously on my blog, it’s been 17 years since we last saw each other. She found me on Facebook last year and we’ve been emailing off and on. She opened up her home to me and her daughter my niece so generously let me sleep in her room for an entire week.

We missed out on a lot in each other’s lives. I didn’t get to see her get married or meet my niece and nephew when they were babies. She didn’t get to see me graduate college or even high school for that matter. We never got to talk about boys or share clothes. (She’s tiny; the window to share clothes was a slim one!) I didn’t get to meet any of her boyfriends and she hasn’t met any of mine. We hardly have shared memories of growing up and being raised by the same people like many siblings do. We didn’t even really have a chance to bicker like siblings do!

What made this week with her and her family so profound was that we got to be late bloomers together. When she took me to the nearest H&M, she said out loud what I was thinking. “Wow, I get to shop with my sister! I’ve always wanted to shop with a sister.” We also cooked together, drank together, “danced” together (does “Just Dance” on Wii count?), and we even bickered! (She wouldn’t let me pay for anything!) As for the things that already happened that we missed out on? We told countless stories. All the stories, even the funny and happy ones, made my heart hurt because I wasn’t there for them. It really hurt to hear how much I missed, but as sad as I was, I was also so incredibly grateful that I was finally hearing about her life from her.

Most of all, I’m so grateful that she’s no longer a nebulous memory but someone who is very present in my life. I love my sis.

And Then It Was Over

I’m back home from an awesome time in Vegas for Bloggers in Sin City.

I will recap soon. For now, I wanted to show you the only video footage we managed to get. I just saw this for the first time and it just made me want to invent a time machine. Miss these girls already.


Youtube Link