Last weekend, Barb Steinberg, LMSW lead a workshop on how to empower girls. One of the ways she mentioned was to have them make a list of “stress busters.” Stress busters are things you do to relax and self soothe. And even though the workshop was catered to young girls, having a tool box of things that calm and relax you is a life skill everyone should have. In an effort to remind myself to take time out, here’s my list of stress busters.
31 Stress Busters

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- Reading
 - Cuddling
 - Dancing
 - Preening
 - Taking bubble baths
 - Taking hot showers
 - Baking
 - Journaling
 - Dancing
 - Playing with pets
 - Playing with children
 - Decluttering
 - Exercising
 - Cleaning
 - Connecting with friends
 - Breathing
 - Performing random acts of kindness
 - Watching favorite TV shows
 - Saying no when feeling overextended
 - Saying yes to only the things I truly want to do
 - Paying down debt
 - Creating something (even if it’s just a napkin doodle!)
 - Meal planning to reduce amount of money and time spent at grocery stores
 - Getting enough sleep
 - Staying hydrated
 - Treating myself
 - Admiring scenery (e.g.: look up at the clouds, notice the sunset, appreciate the beauty of flowers)
 - Getting the hard action items off my to do list first
 - Dating myself (e.g.: solo trips to movies, restaurants, and museums)
 - Laughing
 - Sipping on a warm beverage