2013 in Review

It was a monumental year. I turned the dreaded Thirty, ended a long term relationship, fell in love with Paris, and faced tiny and giant fears.

January

I rang in the New Year with Alan and the same friends I’ve celebrated New Year with for the last 6 years. I treasure traditions. Little did I know this would have been the last year of our six year streak. More on that when you get to December.

February

Sometimes being a food blogger affords me some awesome opportunities. In February I had the opportunity to be a tasting judge for That Takes the Cake for the second consecutive year. I also visited the little rescue zoo in Austin for the first time with my little from Big Brothers and Big Sisters.


March

Alan and I celebrated five years together. We did not make it to the end of the year. Our relationship has shaped a lot of who I am today and for that I’m grateful.

April

I celebrated being matched with my little from Big Brothers and Big Sisters for five years by going to the new racetracks in Austin and watching the MotoGP Races. I can’t believe it’s been almost six years with this not so little little of mine. I worry about her a lot because I find growing up in today’s society is a lot harder for young people now than it was before technology has changed how we interact. That said, it has also been a pleasure to see her become a young lady. I realize I’m talking like an old person.

May

May was such a life changing treasure. I visited Europe for the first time since high school. Kim and I spent almost a week in Paris, a couple of days in Amsterdam, a day in Brussels, and a night in Istanbul. When I think about this experience my heart aches with bittersweet longing.

June

I spent a lot of this month acting as a silent auction chair for a charity event that the Austin Food Bloggers Alliance hosted in July. It was a lesson in rejection as I cold called businesses requesting donations. When I skim my Instagram feed in June I see a lot of food. I went to a lot of restaurant tastings, cooked and plated many dinners, and tried 16 pizzas from four restaurants in just a day.


July

I scratched off Oregon on my states goal by spending the weekend in Portland at the World Domination Summit with Anita, Treavor, and Jennifer. It was a magical and inspiring weekend that still makes me smile when I think of it. We had one of the best Thai meals I’ve ever had and delightful cupcakes and saw so many great speakers. I ended the month by celebrating my 30th with a birthday potluck party centered around ball shaped foods. It was a ball!

August

We had a Cookbook Book Club meeting and actually cooked. We are all busy women so our Cookbook Book Club meets more like every two-three months and every other meeting is so late on a week night we sometimes opt to eat at a restaurant instead of cooking. I have loved getting to know these ladies over good food.

September

I spent a weekend in the country outside of Dallas with Kim and her friends. Anita and Treavor joined us during the day. We rented a darling cabin and roasted marshmallows over an open fire. It was romantic and evoked feelings of autumn nostalgia. I then spent just a day in Miami painting my friend’s new house for hours and hours on end. I did manage to steal ten minutes of beach time on the way to the airport. It made me think of my dad.

October

A month of loss. I lost two friends to illnesses and with a heavy heart walked away from my almost six year relationship with Alan. October was also the first month of a new year of attempted monthly projects. For October I took at least 10 shots with my new DLSR.

November

I blogged every day in November. It was a difficult month. I moved out of the apartment I shared with Alan and cried for hours on end for days straight. It started to look up when I self-medicated with lots of dates with friends, including a third annual Thanksgiving potluck picnic pictured below.

December

I called December my Fear Factor December and I tackled my fears almost daily. I took a bee keeping class, spent an hour in a sensory deprivation chamber, started to release anger I’ve hung on to for four years, used a blow torch, boiled a live lobster, donated blood, and went on a police ride-along all in an effort to face my fears. December was hard, fun, and amazing. I scratched out three new states in two days and met a couple of my Internet friends. For the first time in six years I will not be spending my New Year’s in downtown Austin dolled up. I decided to honor the life changes that occurred toward the end of this year with a change of scenery. Instead of of heels and sparkles, I’m going for comfort and sparkles with a night in with my best friend, Kimmy. We will have our New Year’s tradition on the actual first day of the year for the first time in a few years.

In short, 2013 was both so hard and so lovely and I don’t know what to expect of 2014. But I’m ready.

Previous years: 2008, 2009, 2010, 2011, 2012


Question: What are five highlights and one “lowlight” from your year?

  • lisasyarns

    Beautiful recap. I really respect the fact that you have been through some difficult things but there is still such an sense of optimism and positivity in your writing. I could definitely learn from you as I am still in Eyore (sp?) mode these days. But I do feel good about what 2014 should hold for me!

    5 highlights:
    1. Going to Paris!
    2. Passing level 3 of the CFA
    3. Finding out I am going to be an aunt again in January
    4. A fun trip to NYC (which is such a summation of moments).
    5. A trip to the DC area (another summation of moments).

    Lowlight:
    1. My unwanted move to Charlotte (no surprise there).

    Happy New Year!!

  • http://www.treavioli.com/ Treavor Wagoner

    You did good. ;]

  • http://www.melissalivinglife.com/ Melissa

    Linda! What a year you’ve had. I feel like I’ve been so busy, despite reading your blog I missed so much of it. Boo. I’m sorry to hear about the end of such a long relationship. It sounds like you’ve been keeping yourself busy & working really hard at making every moment count. I wouldn’t expect any less of you, so keep in truckin’ and can’t wait to see what 2014 has in store! You’re the best!

  • http://aloveaffairwithpaper.com/ Danielle

    Happy New Year. I can’t wait to see what’s in store for you in 2014. Wishing you the best! XO

  • http://www.stephanywrites.com/ Stephany

    Yes – I want to second what Lisa said, there is such a positivity and optimism in your writing, even though 2013 was a difficult year for you. It’s very inspiring!

    Let’s see, my top 5 moments: getting a new job, my mom getting engaged (and feeling more and more comfortable around her fiance!), taking two cruises, new girlfriends, and buying a car.

    My lowlight for the year was not losing weight. Again. Sigh.

  • http://superduperfantastic.com/ suki

    Even with the low lights, it seems the highlights outweigh it all! What a fantastic year you’ve had, especially with your positivity shining through. :-) Hope to see you in 2014, friend!

  • http://www.ginamarierose.com/ Gina

    Yay for all the awesome things you experienced this year! As for the lowlights, I’m sorry you’ve had to deal with them and end 2013 the way you did. I want nothing more than to hug you and treat you to happy hour! I hope 2014 brings you all the love and happiness you deserve, Linda.

  • Ashley J

    This year. WOW.
    All I can really say is that I’m proud of you for making the hard decisions. And about this year, more travel…ALWAYS MORE TRAVEL :D You’re a lady with a big heart (it comes across) and I can’t wait to see all the new things you’ll love this year!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • k

    we’ll always have paris <3

  • Bree

    It never fails to astonish me how much you complete in short periods of time! Please continue being as awesome as you are!!!

  • http://www.searchingforsubstance.wordpress.com/ searchingforsubstance

    love reading year in review posts! sad i didn’t come across yours sooner. =)
    although 2013 was a tough year for you, may 2014 be filled with more growth, joy, and hope. =)